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if you're doing late at night try to do it earlier or have the lights on while you do it , that helps me

Thanks for the responses.

No problem. I apologize for being vague; hopefully there's someone else that can offer more solid advice.

10:19 PM

Practice really makes perfect in this case.

I really do agree with Clo. Twenty minutes osnt am insignificant number, so you are doing well.

Any amount of time spent forcing is good.

12:38 AM

The more time spent, and the more focused it is in giving experience to the tulpa, the better.

hi! im new here, but i've known about tulpas for a few years now. recently i decided to take it seriously and that it's about time i started working on one, but i've run into a problem and i was wondering if anyone could help? i already have the situation typed up, and it's a bit lengthy

send it out

12:45 AM

that's what the channel is for

thanks!

I might be able to provide advice. ^^

every time i do a tulpaforcing session i always start with imagining him in the same neutral position as if i was still forming his shape in the earlier stages. the problem i'm having with that is that i always force myself to imagine him the same way. so if he moves and i feel strongly that it's just me imagining him a different way–puppeting–i imagine him in the same neutral position and pretend he never moved in the first place. it's always with movement, though. we're not very good with communication, either, so i can't really ask him if he was the one who moved, even if i strongly believe it was just puppeting. i know i should work on communication, of course, because it could help, but i was wondering if there's something i'm doing wrong, or if there's some sort of exercise or something i could practice that would make this easier for me. (although, it just seems kinda tedious to always ask "hey, did you move just then?")

try to not except him to move and then if he does assume it's him

that is a little easier said than done, i feel, but i guess meditation and practice could help with that? or is there anything else that could? (edited)

yeah it's not easy, in general it's best to believe it's your tulpa unless they say otherwise

12:54 AM

besides even if it is you it's not necessarily bad as you may be teaching him how to move around in his body

12:57 AM

in general if you aren't sure assume it's the tulpa and work on developing communication, the more you believe your tulpa is developing the faster it'll develop

okay, thanks! that helps a ton. i guess i just never thought of accepting it, since i tend to deny things more often. thanks, again, for your time

no problem

Hey guys, I started creating a tulpa 3 days ago, and it is going really well. I was wondering if someone is willing to answer a few questions for me in DM? Preferably someone with experience or knowledge about dissociative symptopms/disorders.

I should be able to help.

7:33 AM

@kaj If you are still here, at least.

@briful A second opinion on your situation - Try not to assume that it's him moving on his own. Sometimes it could be intrusive thoughts, and sometimes you can visualize him in different positions - it can help with the process a ton. If I may ask, since you mentioned that you guys don't have the best communication, has he been able to respond back or are you still in the initial sentience stages?

Whoops, that was supposed to be under my account.

sometimes he responds and other times he doesn't. i'm not sure if it's just me not being able to hear him well or him not answering. and he doesn't speak yet, so it's been with flashes or head pressures

Keep forcing and don't really give much of a thought about puppetting (at least in this case), if anything think of it more like "posing" when you visualize different positions. My host always had those sorts of issues when he first made a tulpa. The best thing I can say when it comes to that is that you'll "know" when your tulpa moves. It's difficult to explain, but you get "that" feeling when you know. You'll keep doubting but your tulpa will either reinforce it or not respond, and that's okay. When the first tulpa moved, she smiled and gave head pressures to reinforce it.

okay, thank you. that helps, too! also, i think i understand what you mean by "that" feeling, so hopefully i'll know when it happens

You'll know.

Texting for my tulpa bin very helpful for there communication.

1:03 PM

Trying to give them their own space on what they want to say.

1:05 PM

Having two tulpas bin a challenge.

1:06 PM

At the Same time.

Don't go above 2

They develop on there own. At the time so I didn't know.

True

Not saying there a problem they bin the best thing that happened to me. Just bin very difficult

1:10 PM

Bin having problems with thin understand things

Well

Pandora bin a really work

BEEN

my host knew a tulpamancer back on IRC who went by Bin

Having two excessively talktive friends really blows up my mind, at times

piano

1:12 PM

changing bin to been doesn't improve that sentence by much

Ok

1:12 PM

If it helps u

It doesn't but it is at least a little improvement

They fight alot

Sure, they're all human beings

They disagree on alot of things

Despite the fact that they don't have a real body

You made them to be opposites...

tell them to settle their differences civily

Of course they disagree

Will there twin sister

1:15 PM

Made at the same time

u said before they fight like sisters

1:16 PM

Maybe that's a step they'll have to cross

They fully understand there sister

1:16 PM

That's how I new

1:17 PM

At first I thought Dazama was the only one. She gave her self a nane

1:18 PM

I didn't name them

you probably shouldn't be typing under the name Dazama if that's your tulpa's name

1:18 PM

its a cause for confusion

(Castiel) better

sure

So did I thought there was only one, but later I found there was two

alternatively, you could change your nick

Ok

1:20 PM

Well as I was saying about both of them

1:21 PM

First day Dazama more active.

1:22 PM

2nd day Pandora appeared. After I came to this place.

1:26 PM

Win I learned that they where tulpas I took it to more understanding to them.

And your avatar? I assume it's Dazama, isn't it?

Dose tulpas help change your thoughts tords things?

1:27 PM

Yea

1:28 PM

That's how I saw her

1:29 PM

First time a every draw like that

Sorry the internet sucks, so my reply may niot come in minutes

1:32 PM

I've been retrying for minuts

1:33 PM

I guess they can change the way you see things, yep

1:33 PM

They've changed my way to see the world

Sorry I move discussion to #tulpa-discussion

1:34 PM

@Mosken_P

Hi all. ^^ I have a quick question about tulpas. I started creating one yesterday and I think it's going pretty good, but maybe a little bit more information would be helpful for me...

go ahead

Are tulpas able to feel the physical needs of the host's body? Like, can they be hungry, sleepy or anything like that? Even when a host is not paying much attention to them right now and they might be inactive.

they can perceive any number of body sensations, yeah. One way to call this is being plugged-in into the body.

4:17 PM

Tho it also happens that tulpas get tired at different rates than the host, for a number of reasons.

Oh, okay, thanks a lot. Another thing I'm a little bit concerned about is that my tulpa changed his form already, but I created him barely yesterday. I wonder if it's not too fast. He didn't allow me to change it back to the previous one, even though my first attempt was to do it, as soon as I saw him - so he resisted. He just develops quite fast.

Changing a form is something most tulpas do as a sign of starting to be self-aware

4:21 PM

So if it's happening already that's good

4:21 PM

I changed my form daily for a good two weeks until I was happy with it

That happened with my host and Apollo too

4:22 PM

He made changes to his form and she tried to revert them but could not

Well I guess that's a good sign then. But 'he' used to be a 'she' before. He looks similar to what he used to, but changed his gender, for some reason. I just assumed it would be the best to start off with the same gender as the host, to make it easier for both of us, but I won't change his decision. Thanks a lot for the answers.

most tulpas end up the opposite gender, for whatever reason.

Because the host prefers the opposite gender usually...

Makes alot of since